Relationship

Relationship

We can never be sure of another person’s love for us. We can only be sure of self-love, our own capacity to love ourselves and another. So, focus on your own ability to love yourself, other humans and all of creation. Keep flowing. The rest does not matter.

The ‘other ‘ is an individual who we cannot influence. You can influence your own thoughts and emotions a lot more easily. Depend more on yourself than you ever allow yourself to depend on another. Go within and love yourself deeply, boundlessly, unconditionally. Then you will find that there is a limitless fountain of love flowing within you. Whoever is thirsty, be it a man or a woman, can drink from that fountain and it will still be an inexhaustible supply of love. Tap into that source hidden right inside your heart and you will never need another human to give u love, peace n joy. After that if u build a relationship it will be for comfort, convenience and companionship and not out of neediness to be loved by another.

Much Love
Shaakshi

Self Love

Self Love

Self-love, not narcissism, is the beginning of all wisdom. Often the hardest person to love, the hardest person to accept, the hardest to forgive is ourselves. You are loveable, adorable, kind and beautiful. You are not placed on this earth to be smeared by hatred and a sense of rejection. You are perfect as you are. You deserve to be happy, peaceful and joyous. Your wants are the natural progression of nature towards fullness. You are pure, stainless and your living presence brings such sweet sense of joy to this universe. Get away from hatred and walk this path of love. Encourage and inspire as many humans as you possibly can to walk this path of love.

Self-love is not only love for oneself, it includes the love that originates from the self and flows out of you and into this universe. All of love from the self, which is you, is self-love. It originates from you and flows out into the universe. Such a sense of love has an enormous capacity to heal yourself and others.

You don’t have to wait for someone to love you. You can fill your cup and let it overflow. You can feel all the love you need and more from within your heart. Then you are not afraid anymore of being unloved or being unlovable. You know the love in your heart can never ever be taken away. You are not jealous or insecure anymore. Such is the power of self-love. Love yourself, worship your presence in this world and find joy in living.

Much Love
Shaakshi

Acceptance

Acceptance

There is a unique beauty in acceptance. When you accept yourself as you are totally, absolutely then you do not long for anyone or anything to complete you. You feel complete already. The mind does not waver towards or away from anything. In total acceptance of yourself, as you are, there is also acceptance of the present moment. This moment, the now, is perfect, full. There is no movement towards past or future, to feel that sense of perfection. The sense of perfection is already here. The most beautiful moment is now. The greatest high is, right here, right now.

There are some things that are hard to accept, that feels unfair and the mind wishes it gone or altered. This resistance makes the brain dull and it drains energy. A dull brain cannot function efficiently or contribute positively. To accept, is not about passive acceptance or a sense of helplessness which will only lead to passive aggression. If you can go into the memory or the emotional imprint that is hard to deal with, if you can understand that it is not your fault to begin with, then you gain a new kind of insight that is not despair but an active understanding of how things are. When you are not busy fixing blames then you have the energy available to fix the problem. To accept is to look at the emotional imprint, memory, and say Yes, this happened; Now let us go over it, under it or rise above. Once the memory senses these vibrations of love and acceptance then it is possible to have the physical memory and still not be affected by it emotionally. Acceptance helps you to approach your concerns intelligently.

Much Love
Shaakshi

Approval

Approval

Have you ever noticed the approval seeking mechanism of the human system? The brain does not seek approval at all. It is naturally blessed with a sense of belonging. It is focussed on its functionalities like learning, evolving, reasoning, protecting the body, operating the biochemical mechanism of the body and being a fully functional organism. This approval seeking compulsion stems from a sense of isolation which is alien to the brain. It is unnatural and therefore it confuses the brain and greatly reduces the brain’s potential to function at its fullest capacity.

Not every human need to understand you, like you, accept you or celebrate you. It is not at all necessary. Be fine with being disliked, be fine with disapproval. Know that what truly matters is whether you approve of yourself at all levels of consciousness; the conscious, sub conscious and the super conscious levels. To be angry at conscious level and to regret it at sub conscious level brings about conflict. With the resolution of INNER CONFLICT there is a sense of knowing without a shadow of doubt that is beyond seeking approval from another.

Much Love
Shaakshi

Imagination

Imagination

Imagination is a limitless tool that is often misused or under utilized by us. You can imagine just about anything; no one has the power to stop you. If you can imagine anything then why imagine failure, limited living, fear of loss, not finding the love that you desire or living life to your highest potential? Bring yourself to imagine a life of joy, success, freedom from fear, finding fulfilment and living your life on your own terms. Bring yourself to imagine a world free of terror, violence and suffering. Imagine strength where you suspect weakness, imagine freedom where you sense limitations.

Anything is possible at the level of imagination. Your knowledge of your life circumstances, the known, limits you from imagining that which is not known. What is unknown to you could possibly be a life full pleasant surprises, wonder and magic. You limit yourself from imagining a possibility that is not yet achieved by you, known to you, seen by you or experienced by you. New experiences can only come from letting go of the memories and experiences that do not serve you anymore. Wonders happen when the brain begins to believe in the possibility. Use your imagination, which is a magical tool available at your disposal to create a world free of suffering and pain; first in your dreams and then possibly in the manifested world.

Much Love
Shaakshi